DISQUS

Think Christian: Quick Thought: Going to Church With An Abortion Doctor

  • Jeff H · 5 months ago
    When Paul admonished the Corinthians to put the sexually immoral believer out of their assembly in 1st Corinthians 5, he admonished them for being lax in their own judgement. (It is important to know that the issue wasn't salvation, but of corruption of the fellowship, and their testimony. The believer, was saved "even as though through fire".) Later when the person repented, he instructed that we be brought back into fellowship.

    In summation, Paul says... in 1 Cor 5:11
    "But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat."

    So within the fellowship or professing believers, there is accountability, but Christians have no business judging unbelievers.
  • Brian J · 5 months ago
    Well said. To me the great failings of many (if not most) modern American congregations is a void of moral indentity: "all are welcome." We ought to welcome repentant sinners and encourage conversions, but to include the egregious and unrepentant into our midst compromises the church body as Paul describes. Not to mention the "stumbling block" having such a person as a church member must represent to a portion of the congregation.
  • faith_m · 5 months ago
    Amen, Amen and Amen..Their is no better way to answer to this that the above.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    This sounds like the Bible verse the Spanish Inquisition would have relied on to burn heretics at the stake, not to mention Protestants, who we know were the Real Christians, but the Catholics didn't know that, etc. Saved even as though through fire? Hey, why fantasize, why not really burn them, "for the salvation of their souls" of course.
  • Leanne · 5 months ago
    Would it be any different than sitting next to the married woman who is separated from her husband yet is having an affair with another church member? What about the person in ministry who cheats on his taxes and deceives his donors? Or, what about the pastor who emotionally abuses his wife/family?

    Would it be any different attending church with them?
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    Nope, it wouldn't be any different. The church needs to work toward confronting each of those people, aiming to restore them if possible, and removing them from the congregation as a last resort.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 5 months ago
    That is a well-intended reply, and appropriate from the perspective of the person who offered it. However, I see a difference. I don't consider Dr. Tillman to be a sinner. If anyone has evidence that he removed perfectly healthy babies from the wombs of women who could perfectly well carry them to term, I would reconsider. But, abortion is illegal in every state of the union at that stage of pregnancy, UNLESS the woman's life or health are in danger. So, I believe that Dr. Tillman saved many women's lives, who would, tragically, have died in childbirth, and faced the tragic choice of destroying babies that, as one other contributor already noted, were very much wanted. Sinner? No, I don't think so. I would welcome him in my church.
  • bethany · 5 months ago
    I agree with your perspective, but with the caveat that we are all sinners, even if Dr Tiller's work was primarily heroic rather than sinful.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 5 months ago
    A good point. Thank you. I'm not perfect, you're not perfect, Billy Graham is not perfect, and John Edwards said "I sin every day; we're all sinners" even before news of his extra-marital affair leaked out in the press. As a member in good standing of Reformation Lutheran Church, Dr. Tiller was no doubt aware that he, like all of us, is saved by grace alone, not by the merit of his good works.
  • Lisa · 5 months ago
    I believe Dr Tiller was a person of faith and that he was serving in the best way he knew how.

    I invite you to read stories from Dr Tillers former patients here, many of whom were in tragic medical situations with pregnancies that were very much wanted. http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/06/0...

    Peace
  • Matt · 5 months ago
    Thanks for sharing that link; it is always important to know all the facts. There are many that would consider Dr. Tiller to be an angel; many that would consider him to be a murderer. I just need to remember and be thankful for the fact that God didn't appoint me a judge over man. Instead, it is up to me to love my fellow man and see their potential in Christ. All too often we see people through our own eyes and unfortunately that doesn't show us their true hearts. My prayers go out to Dr. Tiller's family and all those who are affected by this loss.
  • bethany · 5 months ago
    I feel the same. I am very hesitant to judge others who are dealing with very difficult situations with as much wisdom and compassion as they can. If anybody needed the support and prayers of a community, it was Dr Tiller and his patients.
  • alvin_tsf · 5 months ago
    i think bethany's right on track with not judging others. this is a very biblical principle. i believe the next step would be to engage in meaningful and loving dialogue with a person re the situation as a covenant community.

    yes, i can stand and worship with him/her. because the only reason why we are able to be in the presence of God is Jesus, by His blood. all by His grace.
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    Forgive me for sidetracking us here, but this is a pet peeve. When we are told not to judge others, we're told not to attempt to determine their eternal destination. That is, we're told to let God be God when it comes to the issue of salvation. On the contrary, we are *commanded* to examine the fruit of someone's life as an indicator of where their heart truly is.

    So yeah, sorry to jump in like that, but the "judging" that we aren't supposed to do is actually pretty narrowly defined, and does NOT mean that we don't look critically at someone's fruit.
  • bethany · 5 months ago
    ok, but I also think that the choices Dr Tiller and his patients made were very morally complex. Not knowing all the details of those situations and those people's relationships with God, who am I to say what God called them to do, or what God would call me to do in a similar situation. We aren't moral auditors for other people that we do not even know, God is.
  • Sandra25 · 5 months ago
    pcg, I absolutely agree. People get the judging issue confused all the time.
  • coolmom9 · 4 months ago
    If you make that grace cheap by continuing in sin, isn't the grace cheapened for all?

    Just because someone does a bit of "good" or has good intentions doesn't mean you overlook all the bad. I am wondering how many of the children aborted by Dr. Tiller were misdiagnosed with problems, or what the definition of "health of the mother" really constitues.

    I am sure many murderous dictators loved and took care of their families. Would you stand and worship with them?
  • Joe White · 5 months ago
    Yes, I read these stories. They are sad, but I believe a different perspective is needed.

    I posted this in reply. (I am not sure whether a site like that will allow it to show up. It said my comment 'awaited moderation'):

    "Why is killing the patient seen as a solution to their disease/disability?

    Yes, some babies are very ill or disabled before they are born. But instead of confronting the disease, we now hide from it because it is too difficult for us?

    These children have a life.

    Let that life mean something by allowing them to fight against their disease/disability and to give hope to future children.

    We must be strong to support our children when they are sick/disabled. We cannot simply get rid of them because it is hard on us emotionally.

    Their lives, though short, can help someone else live a better life in the future. Wouldn't you be proud to know that your child helped others?

    I know, some are going to say I am heartless for speaking plainly like this. I do not discount the difficulty of what I propose.

    But killing the patient is not the answer to disease and disability."
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    Two notes: First, late-term abortions are generally not about the "disease" of the child-to-be, but about direct threat to the life of the mother from delivery. Sometimes there is no way to save the baby except to kill the mother, and in that limited situation, a mother may choose to save her own life, losing the baby. Second, in the first two trimesters, parents may choose to remove a partially grown fetus because every cell is indelibly printed with genetic deformities, or the ravages of viral infection, which if not interrupted will grow into a child whose life will be a living hell. That is a choice only the parents can make -- by the time there is a child who can form a choice, much less express it, the decision is already made. (There is no abortion after birth). Some parents choose, on principle and out of genuine love, to take the pregnancy to term and deliver. Some choose, on principle and out of genuine love, to terminate the pregnancy and start over. This was NOT the core of Dr. Tiller's work, but it is a decision I would not take from the parents, substituting my judgment or that of the legislature, no matter which way they decide. Parents who take a pregnancy to term should be prepared to make whatever sacrifices are necessary as a consequence of their decision, and many are.
  • goodegg · 5 months ago
    Thank for this thought. i have been thinking this all along. There is always the arguments that we are sinners, and everyone deservesopportunity to meet Christ. However if I am correct he was an usher. From my experience that means he is someone known to the pastor, and the churhc, someone who is trusted with a level of ministry in the church. That has given me pause. I work in a para church minitry full time, and volunteer as the teaching/discipleship pastor at my church. Our church would put no one in a position of ministry if we felt that they were not walking with God. If this man had given his heart to Christ at some time, he would have a new heart, and I would believe that he would be so convicted over the atrocities he committed on a regular basis that he would turn from them. This does not seem to be the case. Unfortuneately this incident has caused me to believe that we are dealing with a very liberal church, one that knows not the power of glory of God. My prayers are with the congrgation that they would truly have a reformation and revival in there midst.
  • wes · 5 months ago
    What if he was a slave owner? What if we make it legal to abort children up to 1 month after birth and he engaged in this practice?

    When will we stop taking our cues from the culture about what is good and what is evil.

    Have we lost all sense of the intolerable or is everything negotiable?
  • Ryan · 5 months ago
    Raising hypothetical arguments does not bring anything valuable to the table here. Dr. Tiller was not a slave owner. We will never make it legal to abort children "up to 1 month after birth."

    Have you ever walked in the shoes of one of the mothers who had to make the undoubtedly horrendous decision between her baby's life and her own? Between allowing her child to live a torturous few hours or never knowing the sound of her baby's cry?

    Despite what you may think, there are logical, medical, and moral reasons that determine why abortions are legal--and what abortions are legal.

    Deal with the facts and hand. Dr. Tiller performed abortions, and he believed his work could reconcile with his Christian faith. You obviously disagree, and I respect that. But please don't attribute false atrocities to him or others to make your argument more sensational.
  • Sandra25 · 5 months ago
    We are all sinners--that is not the issue. Nor is the issue judging others. It would have been pointless for Jesus to have included instructions on confronting another about his/her sin if we were unable to "judge" the behavior as sin (the error lies in using our own standard to judge sin, rather than God's standard). I think the real issue is whether or not we are spiritually prepared to confront another's sin. Have we confessed our own sins, received forgiveness, and repented? Perhaps the reason "no one does this," as Steve said, is because it requires too much work on our parts to be able, in all spiritual humility, to confront another’s sin. This is how I would handle it: pray, confess, receive forgiveness, repent, confront--like the biblical model. It would be difficult to stand next to someone in worship who knowingly and willfully continues in sin, especially one as emotionally charged as abortion.
  • Rob · 5 months ago
    Yes.
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    I wouldn't be able to worship with someone like that. In fact, I'm not sure I would be able to worship at a church that didn't take discipline seriously enough to work through the process and ultimately remove someone like that from the congregation. As for how I would handle it, I would probably try to help the church leadership see that his heinous and repeated actions stand in direct opposition to God's view of life and encourage them to do the right thing.
  • againali · 5 months ago
    I'm pretty certain you worship alongside someone like that every Sunday. We are all sinners, and no sin is worse in God's eyes than another. Sin is sin. This man needed to be in church, as all sinners do. With all due respect, when you make a comment such as the one above, you seem to be presenting yourself to be perfect and free of sin. God will ultimately be his judge, not you, I, or anyone else. To assume we have that kind of power--the power to say who should be allowed in church and who should not--is very arrogant indeed. "Church is a hospital for sinners, not a museum for saints." My church welcomes everyone, in the hopes of healing them to a full life with Christ. There is no time limit on that--it could take years. I would not presume to know the point Dr. Tiller was at in his journey with the Lord--that's between him and God, and quite frankly, it's none of my business.

    ...And how would we know whether or not a church was addressing someone's sin? Would it be in the bulletin?
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    there is a clear delineation between sinning and unrepentant sinning. All continue to fall short of the glory of Lord, that is true. But it's not arrogant, nor is it some brand new idea, to rid the assembly of unrepentant sinners. Paul — was the first one to come up with it.
  • againali · 5 months ago
    Yes, the same Paul who used to be Saul, the Christian-killer. That's the one.
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    Right, the Paul who REPENTED of his ways, STOPPED killing Christians, and STARTED to value life as God values life. We're definitely talking about the same person, and this Dr. Tiller is no Paul.
  • againali · 5 months ago
    I guess my point is, how do we know Dr. Tiller would not have done the same as Paul at some point in his life? Is there some sort of time limit as to how long it should take someone to fully come to Christ? Sometimes all it takes is one specific line from a sermon to change someone inside. Some people come to Christ immediately, some people--due to life circumstances or other factors--take years. I think the journey to fully embrace Christ is as important to God as anything else. We will never know if Dr. Tiller would have ever gotten to the point that Paul did, because his life was cut short from a "well-meaning" Christian who decided his reasons for murder were valid and acceptable. I wonder if people would worship next to him.
  • pcg · 5 months ago
    That's really not the point here. Read 1 Corinthians 5 and see how eerily similar this situation is to the one Paul was describing. Dr. Tiller performed an action that even most pagans would not perform (v1). His church was proud (v2), given that he was in some small position of leadership. Paul's judgment (v3) applies here as well: hand this man over to Satan (v5) and to expel him from the assembly (v13).

    Now, what's the point? The point is that by refusing to include Dr. Tiller, the hope is that his "spirit will be saved on the day of the Lord" (v5). Not that no one should ever associate with sinners, since that would mean we would "have to leave this world" (v10). But just because we are called to associate with unrepentant sinners should not mean that we ought to include them in our worship assembly — we are to judge them (v12) and finding them in unashamed contradiction to God's word, expel them (v13).

    Your rhetorical question doesn't really work: no one ever "fully" comes to Christ or fully embraces Him. It's the sinner who doesn't care that he's a sinner and even flaunts his sin, yet attempts to lay claim to Christ's sacrifice, that Paul is talking about in 1 Cor 5. (This applies to people that murder one person or people that murder dozens every week, like Dr. Tiller.) Such people work through the church like yeast through dough, skewing ideas of right and wrong and leading people behind them into unrepentant and mortal sin. Paul's concern is not for the Dr. Tillers — it's for the rest of the church whose spiritual lives are at stake because of such men. THAT is why he says to expel the immoral believer.
  • againali · 5 months ago
    All I'm trying to say is how do we know Dr. Tiller would not have repented eventually?

    Also, he had the disadvantage of being a public figure. How many people do we stand next to in church every week whose lives we don't know about--whose deep, dark secrets we can't begin to fathom? Ignorance is bliss, I guess.
  • fay · 5 months ago
    I totally agree with you ,its time people start respecting the house of the Lord.People simply choose not to understand the difference between whats right and whats wrong and they term it judging!!! If we are serious about serving the mighty king then we shouldnt have people who make our prayers hang in trees !!Praying is Serious bussness to me and its my top priority....
  • Zach Nielsen · 5 months ago
    My answer would be yes, I could still worship because my hope is in God and not in the spiritual performance of myself or others. That being said, I would quickly cease attending any church where the leadership did not address this sin. Think about it like this: Would you continue to attend a church where you knew that one of the attendees was systematically killing toddlers? Of course not. (To be sure, if someone is killing toddlers, the justice system would hopefully be involved very quickly. This should give us a window into the insanity of abortion.) What is the difference between killing a baby at 8 months in the womb and killing a 10-month-old out of the womb? I would argue that there is no significant difference between those different ages that should be grounds for killing one and not the other.
  • amyb · 5 months ago
    I am pretty sure that if an unrepentant abortion doctor were a member of our church, the church would begin the process of discipline, which would culminate with either repentance and reconciliation, or excommunication from the church. If the church didn't do that, I would leave the church, not because I cannot worship next to sinners, but because I could not worship under leadership that neglected to obey the biblical mandate given to church leaders to discipline serious unrepentant sin (as instructed by Jesus and further clarified by Paul).
  • SiarlysJenkins · 5 months ago
    Having posted a very different perspective on Dr. Tillman, I would like to note that amyb is absolutely right about church discipline. IF the church embraces doctrine which excludes Dr. Tillman from membership, he should be excluded. There are other churches he can worship at, which would take a different attitude. IF amyb seeks a church which has such a discipline, it is amyb's right to find and join one. That is precisely what freedom of religion is about. We are not only free to worship as we feel called to worship, but to associate with brethren of like mind, and to exclude what is unacceptable to us from the church. As long as their is no arm of the secular law enforcing a single orthodoxy, it is all voluntary == and God will judge.
  • Josh r · 5 months ago
    I think all sinners should be welcomed in the pews. We all have murdurous hearts to one degree or another, and we need to be saved from ourselves.

    I don't think that I would go to a Church that failed to consistantly call someone like that to repentance however. I certainly would leave if he was promoted into any form of leadership.
  • John · 5 months ago
    Thou shall not kill and late term abortion is killing. God will forgive if you truly ask and repent of your sins, it's much harder for us. In God's Grace John
  • SteveMatheson · 5 months ago
    I would not have hesitated to worship with Dr. Tiller, and if a fellow congregant were to confront him in his sin (whatever sin that might be), I would check to see if that person was consistently applying biblical standards for such action. Since no one does this, I find it hard to take calls for church discipline (or unilateral breaking of fellowship) seriously.
  • chris · 5 months ago
    So checking to see if the congregant was 'consistently' applying standards is the litmus test for biblical obedience?
  • SteveMatheson · 5 months ago
    Why do you ask? That's clearly not what I wrote, so I guess you should ask someone else.
  • smitty · 5 months ago
    No. My church would prayerfully vote to exclude such.
  • Matt · 5 months ago
    Interesting - just by reading the response, it seems that you've made the decision before you've even prayed or voted.
  • HeidelbergChad · 5 months ago
    I think of Arthur Miller's The Crucible, where John Proctor states that he couldn't justify church attendance when the new leadership only displayed greed and worldliness, collecting offerings for golden candlesticks. He said that it hurt his faith.
    In the same way, I feel like it would hurt my faith to attend church next to a well-to-do doctor with a lucrative practice killing over 60,000 unborn children in exchange for money.
    Making him an usher seems to condone his work. I suppose he must have tithed consistently in order to buy the silence of the pastoral staff.
    If such a person had no conviction, no crisis of conscience, and no guiding intervention from church leadership or even other attendees, I can't imagine having the strength to continue attending services with that community of believers.
  • kjml · 5 months ago
    1. Killing in the name of being "Pro-Life" is the ultimate hypocrisy.
    2. I worship standing next to Sinners every Service that I attend. (As do MY pew mates!)
    3. How will/would someone, such as Dr. Tiller, ever come to repentance if excluded from fellowship? Confrontation? Maybe. If done in love and with sincere hope of reconcilliation.
    4. It is reassuring to know that "many" of Dr. Tiller's patients were caught in "tragic medical situations" but I would not be comfortable with the practice unless that description could be extended to ALL of the babies he (and others like him) have slaughtered.
  • varghese · 5 months ago
    i would never be able to stand next to the man/woman knowing that they are the murderers they are.....may god have mercy on their souls!!
  • cari · 5 months ago
    could you handle going to church with someone who tells white lies? someone who works at an insurance agency turning down people who need help? someone who is an alcoholic?

    who are we to judge?

    of course, having an addiction of my own probably colors that question far more than it might for someone else. i'm in recovery for it, but nonetheless, it's there.

    how would someone feel about going to church with me?
  • Marc · 5 months ago
    I've no problem with going to church with a white-liar but a big problem with a paedophile. Jesus did not "solve" sin in the sense that it no longer matters at all. As evangelicals we sometimes forget a) that it is the repentant sinner who is forgiven and b) that even God sees some sins as serious and others as not so serious.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 5 months ago
    I would have a problem with a pedophile being in a situation where s/he is likely to recommit the same crime -- and many pedophiles literally can't restrain themselves. That might be a reason to exclude them from church, since hopefully there are many families with children around. But, I have no problem worshipping with a pedophile -- it may be in prison, or in a secured medical center, but the pedophile is no less in need of, nor eligible for what the church has to offer. Incidentally, could we stop saying that someone IS a pedophile, or a thief, or a murderer? A person is much more than their most heinous acts. A person has molested a child, or has stolen, or has murdered. That is serious, but it is not who and what they are, in toto. A pedophile was once a fetus, and then a baby.
  • Tim Wright · 5 months ago
    Hi,

    I would say the issue is of Community. Can anyone be a Christian by themselves and intentionally stay outside of community. I would say no. I would find another church if my church would not discipline this person. Over 25 years ago, a man in our church became a Christian, he had to change his job, when he became and Christian. He killed people for organized crime. He made a very good living. He realized that he couldn't continue to kill people and become a Christian, unlike this Dr who killed babies. I prayed for this mans family over the this tragedy. I strongly doubt that this man who performed late term abortions was a Christian. Any church that could have a man like this in their congregation, is a sad reflection on this church, the lack of the presence of Jesus would encourage me to go elsewhere.

    Tim
  • SiarlysJenkins · 5 months ago
    As I recall, Pharisees criticized Jesus for consorting with sinners and publicans.
  • sistersharonblcl · 5 months ago
    He has a job like any body else not that i want to stand in his shoes but remember that god said we suppose to forgive 70times 70 so i do not want to judge him but that's just one job i would not want to do but after all he has to live too rather if we like his job or not we all have jobs that people do not like but we all have a job to do don't we.be bless in jesus name amen!!!
  • Jeff Featherstone · 5 months ago
    It depends whether the doctor in question is claiming to be a Christian or not. If they're not a Christian, they should be welcomed as any other visitor. Their particular sins make them no better, no worse in the sight of god than any other. If they are a Christian, then the issues around their job are more a pastoral and discipline matter for the church leadership to address.
  • Carmen · 5 months ago
    I would really have to look at the church. I just have a feeling if he felt comfortable in his work and the church had no problems making him an USHER then that church is dead.
  • Matt · 5 months ago
    How would you handle going to church with someone who is an abortion doctor?

    Love them, perceived faults and all.

    Could you stand next to him and worship by his side knowing what he did for a living?

    Definitely; church is full of sinners (me, included!). All are welcome!
  • Gary · 5 months ago
    Could I go to church with an abortion doctor? Absolutely! If I, the second worst of sinners (next to Paul, of course), can be accepted in church, anyone can. Could I stand next to him? Yes - same reason. Could I refrain from expressing my strong belief about late term abortions and his complicity? probably not. For I would consider myself speaking on behalf of the children. The trick would be to do so in a way that that is God-honoring and that might gain the hearing of the Doctor.
  • Teci Pulido · 5 months ago
    Yes, I could stand next to him in church because I know full well what sins *I've* committed, even for that past week. Frankly, I'd rather see people (especially those who commit crimes such as abortion) in church, because at least that means they are open to God and hopefully are open to His will for their lives.
  • shel · 5 months ago
    If we don't address that sin in our lives or in the lives of our fellow church members then it will weaken the church and the church will become less effective. The NT instructs us to monitor and admonish each other and there is a whole process laid out for how it is to be done. I could not go to a church the is so "luke warm' that it alowed this sin to continue, by the same rule I would expect to be admonished myself if I as a church menber were sinning purposefully.
  • Marc · 5 months ago
    Either abortion is a major sin or it isn't. Now, sin is bad and some sins are worse than others so I don't agree with the "we're all sinners anyway" crowd. Paul doesn't rail against the white-liars in Romans 1 nor does God judge Sodom because of shop-lifting.

    As Christians, we are to exhort and reprimand and help one another get free from sin but we don't have to stone murderers. Churching with the sinners is a great way to influence them whilst ostracising seldom has the desired effect. Of course if one persists in sin one is to be put out of the fellowship eventually.

    We need to love people enough to want them to be free from sin.
  • YT · 5 months ago
    The question should be what kind of church you want to go to, and what you are looking for there? The church leaders/staffs will determine what kind of church they are having and what direction they are going ...
    People can only choose one, this one or the other one, along with its all consequences ...
    Once you have answered those questions then ... is there a need to make comment?
  • rick · 5 months ago
    I would be queasy standing next to him to tell you the truth. Aborting babies is his primary business and he has been doing it for years. He has financed his cars, built his houses and paid for vacations by killing babies. I'm sure some of those procedures may have been necessary and mother's lives have been saved, yet he is the go to guy when babies need killing. I am no medical expert and have a nuanced position on abortion but I would honestly feel queasy because he is intentional, unashamed and efficiently professional about the business of killing babies and is an advocate for abortion where the mother's life is not at stake. He's part of an industry. I'm sorry but it's not like standing next to someone that has fallen into an affair with their neighbor. Hey, I appreciate Siarly's reasoned comments. Don't agree but appreciate.
  • betty · 5 months ago
    The world is not a perfect place, and there is a saying that there are more sinners in the church than out of the church. But there are two things that bothers my mind. Who was the abortion doctor worshiping? how did he interpret the readings of the bible? why do christians act like they do in the work place. It is as if christ is not real. It seems like there is one rule for in church and other for out of the church. But my God is real, Jesus Christ is real and he welcomes all sinners and patiently awaits their repentance.
  • Chere Brown · 5 months ago
    I could. The Church is the emergency room for the spiritually sick. Jesus said, He came not to heal the healthy, but the sick. Our churches should be full of these kinds of people, so they can hear the Word, which has the power to bring healing.
  • Sandra25 · 5 months ago
    The problem is that too many of us are perfectly content to languish in our "sickness," and the rest of us are too timid to hold each other accountable. This is problematic from all perspectives.
  • dave2 · 5 months ago
    My heart would ache over the glossing of sin. We are all sinners and all have issues, but heaven forbid we stop feeling conviction.

    Regardless of the sin, sinner, discipline issues, etc -- I don't think I could go to that particular church.... just knowing that (who knows) maybe $100K+ of the church budget was being funded by this man's line of work. Yuck. Not the community for me!
  • Stephanie · 5 months ago
    Yes. But I might leave the church when they made him an usher, despite his gruesome career.
  • Magnolia · 5 months ago
    Interesting, all these comments. (1) True, we are not to judge, but we are to to be DISCERNING - based on what GOD says is right and wrong.
    (2) We will never know if Tiller MIGHT have come to Christ, but he shouldn't have held a leadership role until he became convicted of his wrongdoing.
    But his gruesome vocation was well known by all in the church -- elders, deacons, pastors.
    The Bible is VERY specific in how to deal with sin within the church (adultery, cheating in business, false teaching, or murdering the unborn:
    a - Approach the person one on one. If he repents and changes, the issue is closed. b - If he refuses to change, take two or three men to counsel and accountability. c - If he still refuses, cast him out of fellowship with believers.
    Sadly, often men with a lot of money are elected as church officers merely because of their wealth and not because of their heart for Jesus Christ.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    For all we know, Dr. Tiller DID "come to Christ." For all we know, Jesus welcomed him with the words "Well done, thou good and faithful servant," possibly for reasons which have nothing to do with his work in the clinic. For all we know Dr. Tiller is the ONLY doctor performing abortions whose work is accepted, because others were less discerning and more venally motivated. Or vice versa. Perhaps the elders, deacons, and pastors of his church were satisfied that he had not done wrong. YOUR church may not agree, but he didn't ask for membership in your church.

    I am reminded of my conclusion about the election of Gene Robinson as a bishop for New Hampshire in the Episcopalian Church. I am not a member of the Episcopalian Church. I do not pay tithes or offerings to that church, nor have I confessed faith in its doctrines. I also do not live in New Hampshire. Therefore, it is none of my business. When MY church elects a man or woman who is engaged openly in a homosexual couple, I must decide whether to accept that, oppose it, and if I oppose it, whether within the church or by departing from it. The question here is, would Dr. Tiller be welcome at YOUR church. It is none of our business whether the leadership of HIS church should have done as they did.
  • Brian J · 5 months ago
    Just a quick question to all of the "oh, my church is FULL of sinners" comments: are your pews full of UNREPENTANT sinners? If so, how then is your church any different from a Sunday morning secular town hall meeting?
  • faith_m · 5 months ago
    Amen to that Brian , how different are we...
  • Son#5 · 5 months ago
    There is only one Judge, and that is God. Who are we to determine whether a baby lives or dies? There are no moral or ethical reasons for abortion, murder is murder. We all remember "Thou shalt not kill", right? Do us humans think we know more than God and say well, it's okay to kill this baby before it's born, but lock up people for killing a baby after it's born. Dr. Tiller should not have had any leadership roles whatsoever in that church. This whole situation is a perfect picture of how we, both as a nation and a church , have come to value mans opinion over our Creators. May God forgive us.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    Either you are not reading carefully, or you are fully committed to the proposition that a pregnant woman must die in childbirth if that is necessary to save the life of her baby. Roman priests in Ireland did in fact guide doctors to act on precisely that principal in fairly recent times. If you even consider that the woman might have a right to choose her own life over her baby's, if that is really the choice, then you must consider that there could be "moral or ethical reasons for abortion." MOST abortions are not performed for that reason, and MOST abortions are not performed in the third trimester, but that is precisely the question about Dr. Tiller's work.
  • faith_m · 5 months ago
    We all should strive to live with as little sin as we can ,otherwise they wont be need for the bible , apostols ,pasters ,who were sent by the Almighty to give us guidelines.Thats why their are choices in life if you want to kill babies then go be of the world , all those that are supporting this Dr ,if Jesus were to come today would you stand and support this act?/
  • John · 5 months ago
    A sin is a sin is a sin. There are no lesser sins nor are there worse sins. If you sin against the Father and go against his teachings, then you will have to answer to Him. What the doctor did was not against the laws of the state where he perfomed the abortions. For a long time I didn't pay much attention to what was done in an abortion, but in the last few years have researched the whys and hows of abortion. There are medical reasons to have an abortion in the very earliest terms and doctors use that method in hospital all over the country. However, abortion clinics or planned parenthood clinics as some are called are there for those who believe that the child early term or late term is nothing more than an object. They are there because for whatever reason they believe they can't or won't be able to care for the child. A lot of people only see the death of the child, but if you think in some cases it's not only the death of the child, but of the woman, and family as well. It is a sad day when someone who professes to save lives, takes a life because no one wants it. In God's Grace John
  • Brian J · 5 months ago
    (As pointed out by Jeff H) The original posted question is whether one would want to be in church with such a person. I am reminded of the situation of the church of Corinth as revealed in 1 Cor 5. Not to make the mistake of over-applying the text, I felt it worth pointing out that in the case of the egregious and unrepentant sinner, Paul in this case urges the church to put the offender OUT of the church.

    Note this is not an issue of whether the person is to forever condemned or saved (see v.5); rather, it is a matter of keeping the BODY of Christ as clean as possible. To me, the disgrace of the modern church is that in many congregations there is such a weak sense of moral identity that "all are welcome." Congregations do not need to swing to the other extreme of being exclusivist, haughty, legalist, etc., but certainly a healthy measure of self-respect is often found lacking.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    Ever since we realized that all Christians could not coexist under a single ecclesiastical authority, churches have differed as to what human actions are sinful, and why. Therefore, different churches would, or would not, put an offender out of the church, and would or would not consider, e.g., a doctor performing abortion, as a sin. (Some will put you out for drinking alcohol -- others use alcohol in communion.) Early church councils endeavored to sift through the bubbling syncretisms of early Christianity to define a single church doctrine. Much of this was done to serve the Emperor Constantine, who wanted the church to unify his empire politically. The effort failed, and was probably a house built on sand in the first place, as demonstrated by the Greek-Roman split of 1054, the different choices for what goes into the Bible of the Greek, Roman, Coptic and Protestant faiths, and the successive waves of Protestant revival. So, which church is disgraced by which weak sense of what moral identity? Almost all are indeed going to be welcome somewhere. Any given person may not be welcome in YOUR church. The body of Christ is more diverse than the doctrine you embrace.
  • Magnolia · 5 months ago
    Worshipping next to an abortionist gives one hope that he will hear the message of hope, life and God's value of the unborn.
    Does the pastor convict church goers of their sin? Of their need to forgive and His forgiveness? Does the pastor preach this?
    Does the pastor preach about the sins God names, i.e., homosexuality, drunkenness, men as spiritual leaders of the church and the home?
    Tiller should have heard the Word of God every week.
    It is, however, a whole different story to have Mr. Tiller serve on the board or committee in a church.
  • Bill · 5 months ago
    I personally would not have a problem going to church with such a person because all have sinned and fall short of Gods glory. The problem for me is when an unrepenent person is placed in a ministry position such as teaching or ushering. If someone is truly seeking redemption then that is whats important; but the ignorance or acceptace of sin is one of the biggest problems in the church today.
  • Joel Deacon · 5 months ago
    There are 9 Psgs of the Bible that have references to Man with Man
    There are 126 psgs in the Bible that have references to Slavery, most are for it.
    There are 350 psgs in the Bible that have references to women, most demeaning
    If as some say that the Bible condemns same sex marriage, well then it must have been a topic for discussion now for about Two thousand years, longer than the New Testament has been around.
    WHY, If God has been around since day one, did it take so long to drop Christianity in our laps, after all, it's only 2 thousand years old, a mere baby as far as religions go.
  • Victor Rodrigues · 5 months ago
    Matthew 9:9-13

    As Jesus went on from there, He saw a man called Matthew, sitting in the tax collector's booth; and He said to him, "Follow Me!" And he got up and followed Him.

    Then it happened that as Jesus was reclining at the table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and were dining with Jesus and His disciples.

    When the Pharisees saw this, they said to His disciples, "Why is your Teacher eating with the tax collectors and sinners?"

    But when Jesus heard this, He said, "It is not those who are healthy who need a physician, but those who are sick.

    "But go and learn what this means: 'I DESIRE COMPASSION, AND NOT SACRIFICE,' for I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners."
  • faith_m · 5 months ago
    Dear brothers and sisters ,if another believer is overcome by sin ,you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. Galatians 6:1 ,so i feel we are not judging ,but simply following the word of God.
  • SiarlysJenkins · 4 months ago
    I ran this question by a friend who is a retired pastor, who responded "Dr. Tiller would be welcome to worship in my church, but not as a communicant member." I myself often visit that church, but I do not take communion, and would not be welcome to do so, because, more broadly, I do not accept the Bible "as it is taught by" this denomination. (There are other church where I am welcome to take communion, and have done so.) The retired pastor also said that he would attempt to counsel anyone in his church who was in that line of work, try to convict them and bring them to repentance.

    The pastor also observed that, if he killed someone who was attempting to kill his wife, that would be a sin, even if necessary. I'm not sure I would see it that way, if I killed someone who tried to kill my wife, but it has some merit as a point of view. He then observed that this necessity would come by surprise, but Dr. Tiller planned and prepared for work performing late term abortions. This is true, but is is forseeable that some women will die in childbirth unless someone is prepared to perform such abortions. The tragedy is that the political atmosphere has made this a specialty. It should be a procedure that every obstetrician is prepared to do, when truly necessary, in the course of caring for their regular patients, and regretfully done only when necessary. But most won't, which is why Dr. Tiller had a steady stream of patients. It also appears true that the "life or health of the mother" standard has been abused, and that should be addressed without condemning women whose lives ARE truly endangered.
  • Jerod · 4 months ago
    Thanks everyone for you thoughtful comments. I'm glad to see this conversation went so well.

    We're going to go ahead and close the comments for now.